May 06, 2016
Porn can be great. It’s free, fun, readily available and quick.
It can also be less than great. Here are 4 reasons you should consider quitting porn.
One issue with porn is through repeated use you can become bored. When you become bored you slowly shift to something new. Eventually, you shift so far you become desensitized to regular mainstream porn. Then before you know it you are looking at crazier and crazier stuff to even get off.
For example, lets say you start with simple tastes like good old lesbian porn.
Then you continue to add little twists to keep your interest. Until one day you find yourself all the way at the bottom of the shame spiral:
Porn can be addictive. In porn the actors and actresses all meet your preferences, they are never tired and they never say no. That specificity and immediacy can lead to an over reliance. If you have a naturally addictive personality porn can easily become a larger issue.
Sex and money go hand in hand. If you aren’t paying with money then you are paying with time.
You live in a fantasy world instead of dealing in hot sexy flesh.
Sex when done right is so much better than porn. If you do it right two people (or more;) ) are having fun. If you do it really well you have fun and you deepen your connection with your partner. Sometimes you even get to do that with the most important person in your life.